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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ I do not.  I can’t forgive somebody that lied and screwed somebody else for 3 years.  The lies and level of deception are far too great.  It takes a sick person to do something like that.  He is admittedly sick with a host of issues, not just a philanderer.

After intense therapy, he would most likely hold it together for 3, 5 years or so and then start this stuff again.  I’m getting older and I’m not going to get another bombshell 5-10 years from now.  I also know myself well enough that I will never fully be able to forgive or forget.

3 years is too long to lie to your family and screw somebody else.  There sheer number of lies and energy to keep that up for 3 years takes a lot of energy.  How somebody could still play happy family and not let on they had an entire secret life is so twisted.  What a con artist to everyone- me, kids, friends, family.[/quote]

NP.  Totally agree with you.  It's better to move on now rather than another 5-10 years when you find out he's been doing it again for years.  Let him live with the new person and let her deal with his crap feelings etc.  It's feelings that get them in trouble anyway and they'll develop feelings for someone else just as soon as they're unhappy in current situation.[/quote]

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