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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, OP, you’re in an abusive relationship and the woman only controlling your every move. You have to leave. I’m not trying to be unsympathetic, but if you stay it is your fault, not hers.  She won’t change.  So, if you stay, you are choosing her over your children.  I wouldn’t put too much stock on how quickly they respond to your texts or emails.  I think this is a very sad situation and you should reflect on building up your own mental strength and courage and get out.  Make a list of the reasons why you should leave versus the reasons why you would stay. You have only one life.  Don’t waste precious time in this situation anymore.  You obviously don’t want to be in this relationship.  [/quote]

I'm already financially ruined so I don't know if it matters anymore.  Mentally I am a shambles.

One of my kids texted back a couple times - don't know if I got a response to my email because I have not yet been informed by the Keeper Of The Account.  She was SUPER pissed with the email I sent and has barely said a word to me in two days.  But I hear a lot of singing so many bipolar is in full effect.  I don't know anymore. [/quote]

Look I know it's hard to get out if the fog of abuse but there's no reason why you can't create your own email account to contact your kids. O know it's hard to divorce or separate right now but you can take some positive steps now and try to get ready  to divorce and to rebuild the relationship with your children. Your wife can be mad at you but know that there's nothing wrong with a father communicating with his kids especially during a pandemic[/quote]

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