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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ahahahah my brother’s wife is just like OP and we have very very similar issues. When in the past I wrote about her (SIL) everyone thought that I needed to stay out of their relationship and that I was a nightmare. 
Now it’s all different with this OP.... why?
I agree!!! OP is crazy and if my DH wanted to be part of every conversation and visit witt my family I would not allow it and would have never married him in the first place.
The truth is that unfortunately some men just want peace and will give in to an abusive wife just like OP and my SIL[/quote]

I agree you do need to stay out of someone else's marriage. Why do you feel it is your place to get involces in another person's marriage? What was an example of something your SIL did that's like me? Did you ever make the effort to include your SIL? Do you just focus on your brother and exclude her and make her feel like the outsider. It's SIL and MIL's like you who I can't stand who expect to still be #1 in their son's/brother's life and can't accept that he has a wife and still wants to exclude her.[/quote]

That is my brother and I see him maybe 4-5 times twice a year. We probably talk once every two weeks and he has to do it when his wife is not around. She is crazy just like you. Why are you so insecure?
My brother chose to stay with his wife because they have a daughter together and thinks he can change his wife (I am sure that’s not going to happen... fingers crossed)

I don’t get involved in his marriage (except when she attacks me personally). I used to include her in everything, but i should be allowed to also see my brother without her (not in secret). OP, you and my SIL should get together... you would make a formidable couple. 
If your situation is anything like ours, I can promise you that EVERYONE (friends and family) think you are crazy and feel horrible for your husband. We think SIL is just stupid and mean... if I were you, I would try to change fast and show everyone that you can be a decent human being[/quote]

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