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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am.  DH doesn’t want it.  It’s been years since he’s wanted it.  He’s tried a few times, maybe 3 or 4 times in the last year, but stops because he’s not into it or can’t say hard.

I’ve asked him if it’s me, he says it’s not.  I’ve asked him for 3 years to see a doctor, he did last year but hasn’t followed up on bloodwork, and well, we all know this isn’t an emergency visit.

I found lube and he said it’s easy for him to masturbate in the shower.

I am the same weight as when we married.

I have increasingly fantasized about random men, lovers from my twenties, random men I would see out and about, for about two weeks or so when I’m mid-cycle.  I feel like sometimes I need to lock myself in my room for the few days leading up to ovulation.

I could leave and it would be ok financially.  I make enough to live in an apartment or townhome.  I like our life though.  It’s comfortable and stable.  We have kids.  We both had super messed up childhoods and so I really like that I can feed our kids, have a house, see them every day, and basically be stable.

I just miss and want sex.  But eventually I think that will go away when I start menopause, which isn’t really that far away.

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You know that feeling you get in “the few days leading up to ovulation”? That is the drive men feel 24x7x365 and no menopause on the horizon. Do you agree now when I claim that men don’t stay celibate in a sexless marriage? Do you agree the sexless women up thread are completely insane to think a sexless marriage is actually sexless for anyone but her?[/quote]

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