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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. I would remain married.
I have always been very high libido and for me sex is not just  about sexual release. I say that because we are  open about our needs and if we want to have an orgasm we can self-help if the situation warrants it.  For me, sex with my DH  is an affirmation of our whole relationship and life itself.  My marriage gives me unhindered access to my DH's body for comfort, pleasure, entertainment, connection- and vice versa.  If ever my spouse loses all interest in sex I will chalk it up to some sadness, illness or disability in him.  I have been in the situation when I lost all interest in sex  for prolonged periods during pregnancies and postpartum. He did not change towards me because he knew this was not a rejection of him. DH and I both agree that sexual release is important (through sex or self-pleasure) and that we will seek out help if lack of libido can be fixed through medical reason. For us - it is for better or worse and in sickness and health. And for us marriage also means monogamy and fidelity.

- DW[/quote]

You should be aware the menopause is not a disability. It is normal. This is how we were made. [/quote]

I am menopausal. And while there has been some drastic changes I have been able to overcome through medical aids and creativity  I still like sex too much to write that part of my life off. I also do not want my DH to go without sex with me if I can help it. But, most importantly, I do not want to give up sex just because I am menopausal as I enjoy sex too much.  [/quote]

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