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[quote=Anonymous]I can't invest in all 12 pages of this thread, but I think OP needs a collaborative approach with his wife. You telling her what she needs to do will lead to resistance or resentment. Instead set aside a few hours for both of you to imagine what your future will be like (schedule a time with no kids in a comfortable environment). Where do you imagine your kids going to college, when is retirement, what will you do in retirement. Then meet together with a financial planner to talk about how realistic your plan is given your current income. Give her some time and space to get there on her own. [/quote]
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