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Agreed: she isn't a monster for not wanting sex with you. She IS a monster for not granting you a hall pass. And you are an outlier to accept such unreasonable terms. Report back in 6 months and I doubt you remain so passive over the status quo (ie, celibacy). The only sustainable/honest/satisfactory solution here is an open marriage: you meet your needs + she avoids unwanted sex + marriage survives. You are now just whistling in the dark and that cannot last.[/quote]

I haven't asked for a hall pass, so that's on me.

Listen, I get that you're dead certain that most men don't accept this situation.  I'm not going to argue with you because neither of us has any real data and we'd just be two blowhards talking out of our asses on the internet.  I don't know how "most men" react.      [/quote]

It’s a pleasure to have such nuanced and thoughtful male voice on this forum.  I hope it becomes a trend.

Look at data on happiness curve.  Most things in life will go up and down as opposed to staying static.  Your happiness will also go up and down depending on age/stage of life.  There’s an interesting article in the Atlantic.

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Let's see where our celibate male hero's marriage goes a year from now.[/quote]

You’re on a roll.  Just knock down anyone who might have any positive trait.  You’re just a miserable person who wants everyone else to be at your level.  [/quote]

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