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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a spouse going through this. The kids no longer need her help much as 13-19. She does not work. Which is fine.

But trouble is we all walk in tip toes. One form filled out wrong, car problem, insurance issue she becomes very upset.

Screaming, yelling cursing and goes on 20 minutes then back to normal. Happens at least twice a day.

It is exhausting. Stuff as simple as my CD matured and need to roll it over or a college trip becomes telling fests. So we stop telling her stuff then if she finds out then yelling

Also a complainer. About car, house, schools to everyone. My favorite if folks complain to her she complains about that.

She put me on meds a few years ago as I could not handle stress of coming home from a 12 hour workday to a house in disarrey and yelling all the time.

Also exhausting as I never sit down. Get cup, put dog out, removed cob web. She is OCD so she keeps looking for things and as soon as enter room it starts

Also never lets anything go. Make a mistake and it comes back weekly for life.

Not fun dealing with theses people. [/quote]

Let me get this straight.

You work 12 hours a day, during which time your wife ran the entire household and raised multiple kids herself. Now the kids are gone and you gaffe around the house making messes and ordering her to do your stuff.

You also got a mental diagnosis- hope it was a neuropsych to get to the root of the issue not surface issues, and are on meds.

And you come on DCUM and b1tch while working your 12 hour day.  
Hmmm [/quote]

It's not a super big deal to run a household with only two kids very comfortably spaced out.  If that tires you out so, maybe get a job.  I don't get these lamentations of women who don't work and have only one or two children to care for.  If you don't work then yes, most of the household is on you.[/quote]

Another example of misogyny and entitlement attitude.[/quote]

You are weak.[/quote]

He just cannot stop his petty attempts at insults. Poor dude. [/quote]

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