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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I waited until college, and a serious boyfriend. That was all well and good, but he broke up with me towards the end of senior year and it messed me up for several years after that (probably a combo of the breakup, graduating and moving to a new place, losing that college community, and hitting real life all combined). In hindsight, I wish I had dated more in high school, and perhaps lost my virginity toward the end of it, and then dated more guys in college. My daughters are young, but I hope I have strength to be frank with them as they enter their teenage years, and to not make them ashamed of sex like I was brought up. But I still hope they wait 7ntil their later teens because emotionally I think it’s harder (for girls) younger. I kind of want them to get through that “first love” period sooner so they don’t miss out on meeting and dating (not necessarily having sex with them) [b]lots of boys and men[/b] while they are young, single and in a period of life when there are plenty of potential partners to meet. That, to me, is the best way to figure out who you are and what YOU want, so that when you pick your life partner, you’re more likely to pick one that will last.[/quote]

Just flagging that girls can also be into and date and have sex with girls. I am bi. I was closeted for a long time and wish I got more experience with girls before I met my now husband.

Just saying, if you're going to be open with your daughter and accepting, be accepting of all possibilities.[/quote]

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PP here, and you’re absolutely right. My girls seem to be into boys so it’s just what I assumed for going forward, but you’re absolutely right that they could express interest in girls too (or instead of boys), and yes we will be accepting. Didn’t mean to imply there was only one option. But either way, I hope they do a lot of dating to find out who they are, and what they want in a long-term relationship while they’re young.[/quote]

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