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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^See the thing is that you alone have made the decision that this is the best path forward.  If you know that your wife wouldn’t like the path you’re taking then you’re just hiding your actions.  It’s justification to make you feel good.  Your wife has the right to make her own decisions.  You’re in a modern marriage where both parties get to make decisions.  It’s no longer 1950’s and the Father Knows Best scenario.  Give her the options to make her own decisions.  [/quote]

Stop pretending that his wife doesn't already know. There is no deception going on here. She absolutely 100% knows that she has zero sex drive and they have not had sex in many weeks. She HAS made her decision: she wants to stay married (otherwise she'd divorce him) and she wants no sex (otherwise the would be having it together and he would not have an AP). We reject your attempt to recast this as some big secret where he's keeping important information from her or limiting her decisions. Nope![/quote]

Married sex denyers get no sympathy. It is both parties responsibility to uphold the tenents of the marriage. Sex is more than PIV, so the pain theory doesnt work.[/quote]

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