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 [Post New]10/13/2019 22:23     Subject: Re:Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?  [Up]
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My wife isn't interested in sex with me and I am not interested in leaving the family home. I am interested in sex and fortunately I found someone who is. It's that simple.

Worst case, she catches me and I may end up divorced. As opposed to asking for a divorce which will...end in divorce. So what exactly am I risking?[/quote]

You can’t be this ignorant.  If your marriage ends because your spouse finds you have been cheating, you risk the respect of her and your children and everyone else who finds out (including your family, in-laws, neighbors, parents of kids’ friends,colleagues, etc.).  You throw a bomb into the ability of your wife and kids to trust people that might never go away.  You might destroy your relationship with your kids, who will be protective of the betrayed parent.  You risk the ability of your spouse to co-parent with you.  The only thing you aren’t risking by cheating is your integrity, as that’s  already gone.[/quote]

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