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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not particularly a feminist, so that's not why I kept my name when I got married. I am who I am, and it seemed weird to me to change my name part way through my life because of a tradition that I didn't find persuasive. When my kids were born, I was totally fine giving them my husband'a last name. [b]I have not for one minute felt my connection to them or to my husband diminished because I don't share their last name. [/b]And it has not once been an issue logistically or caused any confusion as to our being a family. It's just not a big deal. Heck, it's not even a small deal.[/quote]

Ok, but ask yourself what the point of surnames are for. It's to signify family. With your attitude surnames become as meaningless as first names, and there is no reason at all for anyone in a family to share a surname with any other family member. Is that the solution? To get rid of identifying family relationships altogether?  Should surnames simply be a a way of indicating an individuals identity, without having any tie to a person's family background? [/quote]Wow, talk about hyperbole.  You want to keep your last name so you must want to get rid of any sign of a family relationship.  Yeah, right, that was the reason I kept my last name.  Sheesh...[/quote]

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