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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For context we are in our early/mid 30s with elementary school aged children, married 10 years.

The other evening my wife and I got to discussing what she calls “ethical non-monogamy.” We have some close friends who have an open marriage, and my wife has always been fascinated by it. Personally, it is not for me. I really don’t understand open marriage at all. What is the point? I’m having a hard time understanding why she would even bring this up as an option for us. I feel like I can’t even trust her anymore. It suddenly feels like I am not enough and I feel insecure now. I wish she had never even brought it up. Has anyone dealt with this before? [/quote]
This is why people should not hang with unethical people.[/quote]

"Unethical" people?  In whose judgement, yours?  What's unethical about two adults living by a jointly agreed-on set of rules and making their marriage work for THEM?[/quote]

The rules were already jointly agreed to at the time the marriage vows were made.[/quote]

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