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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's hard to believe you are really having a hard time if you have put yourself out there.  But in case you are really having trouble finding someone, the best two options are business travel hotels for a ONS.  Or go to the places where men hang out in packs.  Sports bars for sure, but also the trendy steak houses (Capital Grille, Ocean Prime, etc).  Just sit at the bar and they will come to you.  If you aren't getting hit on in those places, you are giving off a very closed vibe.  [b]Men are not scared off by the ring, and for married men looking to stray, which is many/most married men, it's an asset[/b].[/quote]

Man here.  The fancy hotel/trendy steak house bar advice is good, but not the ring part.  Take it off.

Only a slime ball will hit on a woman wearing a wedding band.  You can ease a decent guy into it, but he's not going to move on you if he knows by glancing at you.    [/quote]

Yes but as soon as he finds out she a married woman trolling he'll know she's the slime ball.

Honestly OP I would talk to your husband. Get a separation, but agree to live under the same roof so you guys can parent the kids. You have a better chance of meeting someone if you are at least separated. It would be a first step in anticipation of the divorce.

If either of you end up finding someone you both could agree to live near each other. That way it won't impact your kids that much. [/quote]

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