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[quote=Anonymous]We aren't even demonizing you. Like your stepson, we are simply reflecting to you what is true but it's not flattering to you so you think it's demonizing.

You DID cheat
You DID break up two families 
You DO put your kids and marriage over the well being of his kids and the family as a whole (you're NOT blended)
You DO weasel custody to have 2 weeks alone with your husband each month and then demand his kids share their 2 weeks with him with you and your toddlers, giving them no much-needed dad time

Those are facts. It's not demonizing you, it's the truth. You ALL need to be in FAMILY therapy if you have any hope of this ever working out. Quit prioritizing keeping tabs on your new husband at all times, split up the custody, let his kids see him ALONE WITHOUT YOU, who they hate,and your little kids, who they don't care about, so they can rebuild that relationship.

Accept that the friends as in laws all know you're a couple of affair partners who broke two families. They don't accept your marriage is valid and don't and won't support you for a long, long time, if ever. And mostly, humble yourself. YOU owe these kids a lot of hard work, self reflection, sacrifice if you thought nailing their dad was worth all this. This was YOUR choice, not theirs, and fixing it and making it livable is not their problem, it's yours. [/quote]

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