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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]29 is old enough to be cordial, but if I were one of the adult kids in this situation...it’s hard to even begin to articulate how awful it would be to see your dad start over with a new wife and new baby. You made the choice to have this complicated family dynamic. The adult kids did not choose to lose their family of origin.[/quote]

This.  As a 29 year old, reading this makes me want to cry.  I can’t imagine losing my mother and then having my dad start a new family.[/quote]

The mother in this case has been dead for many years. It's a bit selfish of you to go on building your life but expect dad to stay unattached forever.  It's not like you're there to keep him company![/quote]

The parents were already divorced before the mom died.

But anyway, there is a difference between getting remarried and getting remarried and having a new kud a generation younger than an existing set.[/quote]

This.  I'm the 29 year old PP.  I wouldn't expect my father to remain single forever and I'd like to think I'd welcome a new partner into the family...but another baby three decades younger than me would be so hard.  [/quote]
Why?
No one is asking you to raise him/her[/quote]

The odds of dying while the child is young are way higher in that scenario—and the possibility of Dad needing caregiving while still raising a child. That puts Dad’s adult children in the awkward position of figuring out their role with stepmom.

The adult kids may very well be called upon to support their much younger half-sibling in various ways, because that’s who will be there to represent dad’s side of the family.

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Oh I get it
Dad does not get to have a life because there is the chance the adult kids may end up having a possibly awkward conversation .
You selfish Ho's are the same ones bitchin' because your mommy and daddy will not babysit or "help"!
Some very self centered harpies running around.[/quote]

not having a new baby as a senior citizen does not equal ‘not having life’[/quote]

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