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[quote=Anonymous]NP. I agree that the situation presented in the OP is incredibly rude. I'm from another English-speaking country, and have also lived in a non-English speaking country, plus several places in the US, and I can't think of anywhere where that would be anything less than obnoxious. It's not even just the excluded girls who will feel bad, but probably also some of the ones invited to stay over. Personally, I'd feel awful trying to keep it a secret or not make a big deal of staying over when my other friends didn't know about it or weren't invited. You put so many people in an awkward situation. Frankly, only a mean girl and her mother would think this is even almost acceptable. The only acceptable situation would be if there's one girl who is her clear BFF and everyone knows that and she sleeps over all the time... in that case she could stay over that night and not the others and I think everyone would understand. And I agree with one of the PPs that if one of my kids was acting so rudely and insisting on such an unfair situation then I'd cancel the whole thing. But then again, I refuse to raise brats.[/quote]
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