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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The attitude and writing style of the original OP and the 19:21 OP is so different that it's either a troll from beginning to end or a hijack. [/quote]

OP back; neither a man, nor a troll, nor a hijacker. What an odd set of assertions. Anyway we’ll see how gym guy does; still bummed that military guy couldn’t keep us moving forward. [/quote]

so this is where you lost me.  In your first post, you say you're pretty traditional and that you don't rush into having sex with someone.  Now. you text the gym guy who just flirted with you and basically are DTF.  Quite a contradiction - nothing wrong with that at all.  But things just don't add up here.[/quote]

Gym guy isn’t relationship material. Told me as much last summer and from what I gather, hasn’t changed. He’s offering a physical relationship only; not one that could lead to a LTR. I miss physical interaction so I may take him up on it, but it’s not my first choice. [/quote]

Go for it OP - before, during and after my divorce I went through a dry spell and finally decided I really needed to get laid. Same story as you, a guy at my gym was always hanging around admiring himself and others so I said let's do drinks. He was not much more than a giant piece of meat but he definitely ended my drought. We had a few fun sessions until my needs were taken care of. It wasn't my proudest moment but darn it felt good. [/quote]

LOL! I did this once too which was so out of form for me as people see me as being very sweet and proper, which I am. I was 42, divorced with two kids and not dating and my libido went into high gear. I was at my college reunion and met a guy in the class ten years behind mine who was staying in the same dorm that weekend. After the big dinner I ran into him at the bar and two drinks later I invited him back to my room. It was like an out of body experience - who is this girl! He wasn't a giant piece of meat, more like the energizer bunny which was what I needed. [/quote]

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