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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  I really appreciate everyone's feedback but honestly, after reading everything, I think I'm stuck and can't say anything. If I ask him one on one, he'll make up something and I can't prove he's lying.  If I mention in front of my sister, no doubt, she will hit the roof, they'll get into an all out fight, it damages their relationship, my relationship with him, potentially my relationship with her and affects the relationships of the cousins (who are extremely close).  My sister is a "scorched earth" fighter, meaning - it would not be beyond her to get into a huge fight with him, throw him under the bus on social media, contact his job - she's extreme in a way you can't imagine.  Plus my sister does not work - so it's not like she can up and leave him and still support herself.  The only thing I can really do is try to see if I run across anything more concrete.  I can't really come at her with the ice cream story and potentially jeopardize their marriage over it although I'm convinced something is happening.  I just need better proof.  If I get that, I'll sit her down and tell her because she deserves to know and I want her to be able to protect herself.[/quote]

Thanks for the follow up. I know it can be brutal asking for advice on DCUM and this thread has been a doozy, but you're making the right decision for you. Just keep your eyes open, and see if anything else more concrete makes you think something is going on.[/quote]

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