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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve already done B.  I hate myself for it.  I didn’t want things to be this way.  After about a year of no sexual contact I fell into temptation with a woman I met through mutual friends.  I didn’t know her before and she hadn’t really associated with me.  She was friends with some of my friends, my DW didn’t know her or of her.  She still doesn’t.

She’s married as well and we just talked about common interests and started chatting more and it turned personal.  Eventually the topic of sex came up and I mentioned I miss it a lot.  She said the same.  Although she was getting it more frequently than I was (it had been almost a year) for her she had no interest in her husband and he was never an intimate person to begin with.

We went out for drinks one time with friends and left at the same time.  No one thought anything about it as our conversations between her and I were kept very close.  We made out in her car.  A couple of week later we had sex and it was amazing.  We carried in the affair for a while and still can when the time permits.  Our sexual chemistry is great.

Ironically, we have completely different views on many aspects of life.  Politics, religion, music...there are two things which we seek to sync well.  Importance of sex and how to raise our kids.  We talk about stuff and I find her choices are pretty much the same decisions I’d make.  We stay away from other conversations where we differ but I will certainly listen to her view and consider it.

To me, it shows how important sex is.  If we can get together and have amazing sex and good conversations despite our opposite views on almost everything - then it should be made a priority in marriages.

At this point C is going to be the solution.  Until I met this other woman I had a real negative outlook on things.  She made me realize theees more out there

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