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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh. Bums me out the dads are out of the picture by the time the kid starts school. And rarely involved when child is in teen or adult years. [/quote]

I am the mother who posted who is a nurse. And I am here for this. This whole what about the dads?

Well...as someone who has mentored over 100 women who have either chosen to have children or have chosen to terminate their pregnancies, I can say this. The dads? 90 percent of the time want nothing to do with the child and want to live their lives without the hassle of child support, etc. They want to go to college, they will pay for that abortion (it's INTERESTING how often it's people protecting men who push this btw) and they will either sign off rights (my ex) or fight tooth and nail to avoid support to not get their lives derailed.

Because it's a derailment. It's not the path that I even wanted. I didn't want to be an adult so soon. I wanted to back pack across Europe and I wanted a college experience. I wanted to be a physician. I wanted a lot of things. But I decided I wanted my daughter and wanted to be a mother more. And I made choices that reflected that.

Dear PP: until you put a comprehensive system in federal court to garnish child support like IRS payments, please take a million seats. I see you. [/quote]

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