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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. You do not have a right to talk to me even if I share some DNA.  Restraining orders exist if you stalk me or my family.  I owe you nothing.  Great we had the same bio father and you found us bc my brother posted his DNA without my and my mom’s consent.  Stop trying to contact me on every social media platform. Deadbeat dad is dead, brother is an addict who disappears (like father like son!), and I don’t need anyone upsetting my mother with demenia.

I did get a restraining order bc she would just show up at my mom’s nursing home - thank god for security but she did make her cry the first time when she got through.  She also came to my door.  I had to delete all my social media, change my phone number,and move my mom to a different nursing home.

I’m sorry you want answers I don’t have.  I told you this in a fb message, yet you didn’t stop.  Stop requesting to come to holidays. I’m not your family.

From the other side.  We owe you nothing.
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Ugh...looks like the family you came from were all prizes, like you ( :shock: ),  so, she is lucky. Pretty sure it was worth it to know that. Pretty sure.[/quote

Blame my awful father.  My life has not been easy, and I’m left to take care of my mother without help.  I really don’t need someone upsetting my ill mom who mentally doesn’t understand.

Don’t show up at my house and talk to my 6 year old DS.

If we tell you to stop please respect it.[/quote]

I think if you were calm when she contacted you, she would not have gone to the nursing home or continued.  I doubt she was as crazy as you are making her out to be. You just  set up barriers making her do what she felt she had to do. A calm but firm discussion and explanation as to why would have stopped this. You freaked out because you had no idea your Dad had a kid- he might not have either. [/quote]

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