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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder if your son started to tear up because he was worried about your reaction.  I love my mom, but reacting appropriately was not her strong suit.  I could totally see her crying and going on and on about loss of my innocence. Which would make me super uncomfortable to ever talk to her about anything sexual.   Your kid is entering the years where he needs to feel safe and comfortable coming to you about things.  And if your reactions are going to do the opposite, you really need to figure out how to change it. [/quote]

Excellent observation and I think you are spot on. Rather than being scared of the image, he was scared of how his mom would react and given OP's replies that is understandable. I can see her son thinking he is now bad for having looked at or looked up the image intentionally or otherwise and now wonders if mom thinks he is bad and unforgivable for making this mistake and getting caught.[/quote]

Uh, no responsible parent is going to let their 11 year old surf for porn and, yes, there would absolutely be consequences if a kid was caught doing that.  However, the Op's kid pulled up the image on his mom's computer with his mother right there cooking dinner.  His brother asked if the packet of slivered almonds was a package of mints.....the kid googled MINTS TS and that link came up.

I believe Op when she says that this all happened really fast and randomly.  Maybe you don't. There is no way to prove what really did or did not happen.

That was a shocking image, though.  There was nothing about the link, that I recall, to suggest this kind of picture.  [/quote]

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