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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2x-3x times a week, in and out in 10-15 minutes tops if she doesn’t want any foreplay, etc.  This isn’t difficult.  Why do previously horny women fade?  Kids are not an excuse.  Make time for this.  Each week.  What else is better?[/quote]

Men’s sex drives are largely fueled by ever-present testosterone while women’s sex drives are largely fueled by oxytocin.  When a relationship is new and exciting, the oxytocin props up a woman’s drive, but that fades with time and familiarity and is compounded by the stresses of career and motherhood.  Monogamy is tough on a woman’s sex drive, as a recent British study showed when it revealed a slight but consistent and measurable decline in a woman’s libido for each month she is married.

All of that said, a woman still needs to make time and prioritize sex, as it’s part of the covenant of marriage and key tissues sustaining intimacy and connectedness and, more simply, makes her partner happy.[/quote]

Oh please give it a rest. You make it sound like a job requirement.  A lot of things entail a good marriage, sex is one of many important aspects for a good marriage. If  the man isn't doing his share, or there are resentments the sex part is going to suffer. If that's not the case it could be something medical.  Last, it's also possible she faked liking sex just like men fake opening the door and doing their 50% yet when their married that goes out the window. Happens on both sides, and leads to divorce. [/quote]

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