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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I see my wife as a sexual object, just there is no sexual response.  So its not that I don't think she's hot, I tell her that all the time, she just isn't interested in me sexually anymore.  I didn't settle I don't think, we had a good relationship, including sexual, when we were dating and even at the beginning of our marriage.  [b]Once we were married for a while that is when it slowed down and ended. [/b]  [/quote]

This is something that men need to read and understand, but they won't.  They all think, that will never happen to me.  She is the one and once we get married, the sex will only get better.

This is why I swear, I'll never get married again.  Currently, I have a fantastic sex life with one woman and we are monogamous, but I don't even want to move in together.  If it became an issue for her, I'd probably be willing to let her go before I'd make that commitment.  Harsh, I know, but you live and learn.  I'll never again but my sex life in the hands of a woman, or go years waiting for her to recover from whatever happened to turn off her desire.

For the low, or no libido spouse, lack of sex is no problem.  It's rare that a spouse like this will ever see it as "their" problem.  Her only problem is him giving her a problem about sex, or times she has to suffer through it.  It's all his problem but he is powerless to solve it without her help.  And she just doesn't care.  She wants nothing to do with it and won't even offer a reason why.

I give you credit because at least you know you're not marriage material. Anyone that puts their crotch above their spouse, kids, home, security..etc. etc. needs to be on their own. So far it's working for you but it's going to get very lonely as you become older. Things change, your health at some point will change, this lady will likely change. Down the road it won't be so easy to find partners.

This is way too familiar.  BTDT a few times.  Never again.  If you wonder why so many young men are not getting married these days, or waiting a lot longer than in the past, then seeking younger partners, it's because a lot of them have gotten the message and are paying attention.[/quote][/quote]

They are still getting women pregnant and paying through the nose. Too many men fail to get fixed or use birth control. If anything it's more women not getting married today because they can have their family without having a man child.

The men who solely value sex should stay single. [/quote]

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