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[quote=Anonymous][quote]So much bitterness. People stay together despite an okay sex and then get surprised that an okay sex becomes a meh sex or no sex. No mystery there, settling rarely leads to satisfaction.

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I think this is a bit simplistic. Okay sex is okay and many people are fine with that. I had numerous rockstar sex sessions with women that I would not want to be married to. Sex amazing-the rest of them not so much. So when I found someone that was &quot;okay&quot; sex but really good wife material that I really loved, I was fine with okay sex + all the other benefits. I don' think that if you are having okay sex with someone you should expect that it will become meh and then no sex. I would take okay sex for the rest of my life with a good wife over amazing sex with someone that would be a bad wife. I don't think there is necessarily a cause effect of okay sex&gt;no sex at all, at least there shouldn't be.
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I guess I am wired differently. I can't settle on an okay sex with a good person. I would rather not have a spouse. Okay sex makes for a meh spouse, not a good spouse. I am also not talking about &quot;rockstar sex sessions&quot;, I am talking about the desire and the absolute enjoyment of your partner, when thinking about your partner gets you all turned on, when you absolutely love taste, smell, touch, look. How can you have a great spouse without a desire is beyond me, unless you are in a partnership type open marriage or don't care about physical aspect of marriage much. [/quote]

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