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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I should add just one thing in my husband's defense. He had apologized a lot over the past couple weeks.  He has also been honest -- it's me who keeps asking him to stop.  I truly believe he got in over his head and didn't know how to do anything else, and maybe kept it up for attention or as a way of getting back at me when we bickered.  We've been married for 4.5 years so this has been going on for a long time, longer than I want to admit.[/quote]

I'm sorry, Op.  He is terrible.  And he is a user.  He is treating you like the house servant charged with caring for the kids, cleaning the toilets and making him dinner.  In the meantime he has been going off on couples vacations without you and doing who knows what else on "boys night" out.  To top it off he's been bad mouthing you to them. That's just so wrong.

I'm sorry, Op.  Your husband having friends and doing things with his friends is not the problem.  But the blatant disrespect and lack of simple decency on his part towards you is just unforgivable in my view.

Where you go with this knowledge is up to you.  But I would suggest getting a job, getting career training, whatever you have to do so that you have the power to leave him if you need to.

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