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[quote=Anonymous]Your son should write his mother a letter. A conversation can lead to an argument but a letter, a hand written letter in particular, allows for one side to clearly articulate their point of view. What he should say, well that's up to him. But the sudden notice isn't cool and I'm not far removed from a situation in which I myself married someone my parents initially pushed back against. I also think you should attend the ceremony. Your wife may get over it but if I were the daughter in law it would take a while for me to get over it, not to mention the fact that her side of the family will be in her ear about her ungracious mother in law. It's embarrassing not to have either parent at your wedding and quite hurtful. Sometimes you have to ask yourself if skipping the wedding now is worth not being invited to her grandkid's first birthday or kindergarten graduation? She has 2 or 3 decades of grandparenting...this is just a blip in the grand scheme of things. [/quote]
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