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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gwenyth and Olivia P. look so good in super casual jeans and a plain shirt because they are THIN. That's what makes it chic.

You get this right?[/quote]

You're long overdue for a therapy session to discuss your brainwashed perceptions of thin =chic and/or perfect.
You know that, right?[/quote]

I have to agree.  I see waif like grown women and wondering what they are trying so desperately to hold on to.  The boney look is not flattering on anyone. [/quote]

The super thin look looks wonderful for a teen or twentysomething.

Once in your 30s its hard to pull it off without looking too rough.

Think Kate Middleton.[/quote]

But bone thin is more natural, when one's metabolism and hormones play that part.  But after a certain age (agree with 30-something) it tends to look sickly.  Tone (with a little meat)  is fine, boney (quite obviously starving yourself) is not. [/quote]

I hope you realize that this is JUST AS CRUEL as making fun of larger women for "quite obviously stuffing their faces".  I am a 30-something, petite and boney mother of 2.  I am constantly getting asked how I lost the baby weight (my youngest is just a baby) and when I try to explain I have a medical condition that makes it hard to keep weight on, women look at me with intense jealousy, when I would trade my medical condition for their good health and larger body size in a freaking instant.

I am constantly, constantly insecure that other women think I have an eating disorder.

Women can be beautiful AT ANY SIZE.  AT ANY SIZE.  AT ANY SIZE.  That includes THIN.  And THIN does not always mean EATING DISORDER.  Think twice before you body shame other women.[/quote]

Considering you already have the "ideal" figure, I don't know what you're freaking out about.  Just embrace it and smile mysteriously when others ask questions instead of going into emotional fits.[/quote]

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