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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really struggling to be sympathetic here. What in the world are you modeling for your children by accepting and normalizing this behavior for your kids? I hope none of your children are girls--though probably just as bad for boys to learn any part of this is okay and tenable.[/quote]
Yes, this is exactly what all of this is about - your approval and sympathy.[/quote]

Stop getting defensive OP, you're the one who came here seeking advice & expecting everyone to rationalize & normalize yours & you're husbands behavior.

You're the one who allows him to walk all over you & the fact that your son knew about this for YEARS before you?

Well, let's just say I dont see this kid having respect for EITHER of his parents, when he realizes what a scumbag his father is & what a doormat his mother is.

At most he'll have is pity for you... but respect?  None.

How can he when he realizes that his mom isn't strong enough to demand better for herself & doesn't have any self esteem to model right & wrong for her children?[/quote]

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