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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a PSA to the younger ladies out there who happen to read this board.... MANY, MANY people couple up in college/grad school/mid-20s. I'm not saying you must do that, but if you don't, you will see the dating pool significantly shrink as OP is seeing now. Of course, I'm sure OP will find someone that she is a good match with. But it won't be as easy as if she found this person in her 20s. Frankly, I think this is largely because men can easily wait until their 30s or even 40s to find a 20-something wife and settle down and have children.[/quote]

geez thanks! Now I am a cautionary tale!

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I don't mean to disparage you - I'm sure you are a wonderful person and you will find the love you are looking for! I'm just pointing out that it's not as easy as it looks. The market is very hard for women vs. men.[/quote]

Oh please.  Everyone says that.  However, every successful and decent looking friend I have has found a husband.  Except one and she hasn't found one because she has issues.

Op here is what you need to do - date like it's your job.  Get online.  Try and go out on at least one date every week.  It's simply a numbers game.  You'll eventually meet someone you like and someone who likes you too.  Don't approach it too seriously.  Approach it as if you just want to make new friends and see what happens.  Date outside of your comfort zone.  It's completely reasonable to desire a guy with a job but I wouldn't focus too much on that.

Fwiw I am married to a high earner and he rarely wants to have sex with me.  The lifestyle is nice but I would just as much like to be with someone who wants to sleep with me on a regular basis.  No I'm not fat or ugly.  
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