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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I kinda feel for you, OP.  And I say this as a man who went through a loooong stretch of sex starved marriage.  And by sex starved, I mean your frequency, 2-3x a month and my DW starfished for most of it.

So I bet your husband saw your text cynically.  Yeah, sure, he thinks.  She says she wants sex, but she says it when there is no possibility of sex, i.e. when you are remote from where he is.

Then you come home, and its the priority list, of where he comes dead  last.  Which isn't to say 1) you had legit things you needed to do, or 2) he should have stepped up to help regardless of whether sex was on the table.  But forgive him for knowing that after the hectic day, which was going to end close to midnight, on a school night, that if he made a move it would have been rejected.  Because it would have.  Because you were tired by then and resentful.

You got a big problem on your hand.  You aren't communicating.  You also aren't having as much sex as you should to keep your marriage happy.  Which is why I think you should schedule a day, when you two can focus on each other, early, as a priority, not as another thing on your to-do list at the end of the night.[/quote]

OP. Thank you so much for this. [/quote]

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