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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my opinion, if this was a family job, they would’ve done it a different night of the week not Saturday night where she was known to gather with friends the next day for church. It would give them more time to dispose of the bodies create alibi. [/quote] There could have been argument and it was unplanned.[/quote] An argument? What did the mother try to play a joker in a pair during Mahjong? [/quote] You, my friend, have clearly never been the caretaker for an 80 something year old woman. Arguments are frequent (depending on the person) because they lose their filter.[/quote] You are lower than low if you engage in an argument with an 84 year-old. [/quote]\ Not the poster you are referring to, but you clearly have not dealt with someone with no filter. It's not about arguing, it's about getting away and trying de-escalate. My own mother has been fired by doctors/nurses/drivers/lawyers etc and she has been asked to leave places. When she screams, they have needed to scream back when she won't calmly leave. nobody can force her take calming meds. Not saying this is Savannah's mom, but it's not like some gentle soul gives a little tiny eruption. They get fixated and it's very difficult to de-escalate. It takes endless patience, serenity and emotional maturity and not everyone has that.[/quote] This. And even not to this extreme- saying something like "you are lower than low if you argue with an 84 year old" just tells me that your parents are not 84 or if they are, you are not their closest (location wise) child. That is the age where things like assisted living, drivers licenses, health decisions, money decisions, text and email scams, fall hazards, etc are all rearing their heads and the 84 year old often does not want to admit that their physical or mental health is declining. Also many of them have no filter anymore. [/quote]
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