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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ohhhhhhh. Now I get it. https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing#uneasiness ARTICLE: They can’t stop complimenting you We all crave admiration, but constant praise can make your head spin. If someone’s expressing their undying love after just a short amount of time, it’s a potential red flag that their feelings aren’t genuine. Some common, over-the-top phrases they might use include: “I love everything about you.” “I’ve never met anyone as perfect as you.” “You’re the only person I want to spend time with.” JEN: “I have never, in my entire life, known anyone like him…I told him this morning that he makes SO many people happy and better and wiser and kinder. The world is wildly better for him being born into it.” "He is funny and loyal, fearless and discerning, generous and expansive. He is literally making the world better. Being in the light of his love is like a sunflower turning to the sun; “He is worthy of me” ARTICLE: They try to convince you that you’re soulmates Telling you they dreamed that God told them you two should marry is a manipulation tactic. If what they say sounds right out of a film, take heed, Westbrook notes. “Hollywood is great for entertainment, but true love and relationships don’t look like the movies.” Some other things they might say: “We were born to be together.” “It’s fate that we met.” “You understand me more than anyone.” “We’re soulmates.” JEN: “I missed his first 45 birthdays but I don’t want to miss any more. Tyler and I met at the start of the second half of our lives, and turns out this half is so precious, so special. I didn’t know him as he built and grew up and evolved, and he didn’t know me, but the people we are now, the hearts we have given to each other, are the best versions of us yet.”[/quote] This is so good!!!!! I still can’t get over her “He is worthy of me” comment. Maybe that will be the title of her next book. This is how narcissists fall in love. The love interest is perfect and a reflection of the narcissist. Everything Jen says about Tyler is really about herself. Mature, mentally healthy people don’t see other people as ALL GOOD or ALL BAD. She wants him to fulfill all her needs and show everyone how great SHE is. [/quote] Yikes. This is some creepy shit.[/quote]
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