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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a good attorney.  [b]Protect yourself and the kids financially.  Put him on the hook for college in the agreeement.[/b]  I'd also tell the other husband.  Who knows if he knows or if they are really in therapy.  Liars lie about a lot more than one thing.

Good luck. I'm sorry your husband is a piece of shit. [/quote]

I mean this honestly and truly, what person with half a brain would sign an agreement forcing them to pay for college (which is a 6-figure commitment these days)?

Sure I would be willing to help my kids attend college, but legal obligations end at 18.[/quote]

I tend to agree with this. Who knows where college costs and financial situations will be in 10 years for both parents. It's nice to help if you can but even I as a married parent am not promising my kids to cover their entire college tuition one day. Focus on the here and now OP and the big stuff like holidays and summers and custody arrangements for such. Don't waste energy trying to concoct a plan to hold his feet to the fire 10-12 years from now. [/quote]

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