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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious why it matters pp? Are you in a field where you work with people too stupid to understand a name change for marriage? It wasn't any issue at all in my field (finance) because it is so common.[/quote]

No dear in some fields your name carries prestige and you don't muck it up with hyphens and name changes. That's not relevant to someone  just in finance.[/quote]

Oh really dear? I assume that you are a real peach to work with and very prestigious to boot.

I enjoy making a ton of money and having the "prestige" and reputation to carry off a name change without a worry. I get it why people are insecure though, so I'm sorry. [/quote]

Seriously my mother is a renowned doctor who changed her name when she's married my dad, when she divorced him and when she married her stepfather. [/quote]

My mother was adopted into an abusive home and her adoptive father deserted the family when she was 4. Believe me she was happy to shed her name and take on my fathers. To assume that you know all of an individual woman's choice to change her name is shortsighted and narrow.[/quote]

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