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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in - still am - in a sexless marriage. I'm not a slob, I'm active around the house helping, like to do DIY stuff around the house, love my kids and spend time with them.  Our sex life was rough.  Once every few months, to about a year of no sex.  It wasn't my physical appearance, couldn't be because I never helped.  Regardless, the lack of sex and constant rejection drove me into having an affair.  I met a beautiful woman at a gym I go to a lot and we hooked up several times over a period of weeks.  It was great.  The best part was having someone want me and want to be with me.  She made me feel confident and like a man again.  The second was always pleasurable and intimate.

I feel bad I had an affair - as she doesn't know.  But in the same sense I feel validated since we haven't had sex in so long and still won't.  If anything it made me realize there is a lot of potential partners out there so I probably will file for divorce.

Don't wait too long my man, otherwise you're going to regret it, there is a lot of beautiful women who do want to have sex.[/quote]

This is inspiring.

I was also in a quasi-sexless marriage (by definition sex less than 10 times in a year).  Had an affair, felt whole again.  Wife regained libido, affair fizzled and we are back to a decent if not perfect sex life.

I think many of these men in sexless marriages underestimate how much better they will feel having an affair.  And how it may cycle their wife's libido upwards to be around a husband who is happy and glowing again.[/quote]

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