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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your dh have a disorder like adhd or dyslexia?[/quote]

I don't know.  That is a good question.  Anything is possible I suppose.  B/c, honestly, when things like this happen to us in our lives, and they do seem to happen with more regularity than I would have thought possible,  I am often left wondering, "HOW could this HAPPEN?"  I just don't get it.

And as I said, he is competent at work, so???  (?)  I just don't know. . . [/quote]

Probably unhappy at home.  People tend to put in less effort and work into something they do not necessarily care about.  Do you think you could convince him to see a therapist with you?[/quote]

[b]Yes, he devalues anything on the home front, anything that is not work.  He puts minimal effort in therefore, and now things like this happen.  And then he blows up at me and thinks I am badgering him over pesky little details which are below him.[/b]  [/quote]

Root of the real problem is right here folks.

OP, please make a couples counseling appointment and get both of your good selves in there.  
You two are in a bad death spiral and you need to unwind it all and get re-motivated at your marriage, family, teamwork and togetherness.
Resentment is on both sides, a good counselor will get to the root of the problem so there is no anger on either side and both people want to put in the effort.

You will know where things stand after the sessions. And most counselors see right through gaslighting, so if he think the problem is his angry disappointed wifey, he will have to address his repeated role in why you are angry.[/quote]

Root of the problem is DW is batshit crazy and hyper critical. Poor man and poor daughter being raised with this example. She's being sentenced to a lifetime of the same crazy critical attitude towards others which will be hard.
Good luck with your divorce. I hope DH gets plenty of custody.[/quote]
Husband is an idiot who is too stupid to count to 10. You, on the other hand, probably married for money and also can't count to 10.[/quote]

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