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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]op, do you realize that this forum is full of married women who are worried that someone will steal their dh? [/quote] A man can't be "stolen" he either wants to be with you or he doesn't. The ex didn't do anything to make him want to stay with her (no cooking, cleaning, or BJs) so she only has herself to blame.[/quote][b] So that's what you bring to the table?? Haaaaaa cooking, cleaning BJs. You guys are perfect for each other. Next time at least steal a man who isn't pathetic. A personal trainer lol. [/quote] I'm also there for emotional support, I'm there for him financially (his ex could never keep a job), I'm not ghetto, and we have more in common.[/quote] She does not "only have herself to blame" for her husband cheating and leaving her and their child for another woman. I think it's actually pretty safe to blame him for that, and you. That you don't realize that is why people are ragging on you so hard. I am divorced and remarried, and I recognize the importance of spouses taking care of each other more now than in my first marriage. I was younger and a lot more selfish then, and I fully admit that that selfishness was part of why my first marriage fell apart. But if my husband left me for another woman because I didn't blow him enough, that would be on him, not on me. [/quote]
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