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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To everyone saying she doesn't want sex and he needs to fully back off, how long is it acceptable to get away with "I don't want sex"? He says it's been 4x since conception of a baby who is now 8 months old. Exactly how long is a spouse supposed to shut up and happily tolerate a spouse not having sex? Two years? Three? He's in a sexless marriage. She isn't trying at all. Cards don't count. So just how long do you think he's supposed to complacently tolerate a marriage where he is not getting sex and is also being accused of cheating when he's not?

The baby is 8 months. If there's physical discomfort, and I'm leaning toward there isn't, it's just her discomfort and self consciousness making her tense, she needs to get it addressed. This is not a way to live. Both partners have to at least TRY. [/quote]

Get away with?  As long as she needs.

It is not a crime to not want to have sex. Her body is HER PROPERTY, not her husbands.

He can jerk off, or leave if he wants. But she is under no obligation. [/quote]

There are lots of people that put their marriages last.  There are lots of affairs.  The venn diagram has overlap.

This. My 8 mo old is going to come 1st and my body.  Yes jerk off and get over it, she's not his sperm bank.  I'm sure there are people in this world that don't value sex as much. It shouldn't supersede the children, or more important things like communication.

I know a lot of women that do the obligation sex, they are also very good actresses. Their children will always come first, especially with those kinds of men. Actually with those types of men....I can see why there are so many happy widows. [/quote][/quote]

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