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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG OP. GET THERAPY. Your inability to address and work on issues in a straightforward manner is clear. You need to be talking with your wife, not engaging in "judo" or trying to deflect "negative energy". My guess is that you have during your whole relationship subtly (or not-so-subtly) typecast yourself as "very sexual" and your wife as "less sexual" and made her feel judged for it. You can hardly blame her for now freaking out when A) she legitimately cannot enjoy sex due to pain and other post-partum issues and B) you are admitttedly not attracted to her and C) you are playing some weird mind game where you claim to be OK with no sex, when you really are not, and yet judge her attempts at sex as lacking.

THERAPY. [/quote]

Do you even hear yourself?

You remind me of a good friend of mine's ex-wife.  She said (to him), "What's wrong with you?  You need to compromise, and [i]do things my way[/i]!!?!"  This was after she insisted on couple's therapy because of his insistence on real compromise, and two different counselors backing him up - she didn't get the answer she wanted from them either.  [/quote]

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