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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well OP there is something very glaring about all this that I think you don't want to face up to--maybe there ARE some women who are so DESIRABLE they can make attractive guys, with lots of options, WAIT indefinitely for the sex.

But evidently that is not YOU.

You are puzzled and frustrated because you want to make guys you admit you are attracted to, "wait" for some unknown time period before you feel "comfortable" enough to actually have sex with the guy.  And those guys don't want to wait around for you.

Why is that?

You want to believe it's because all those guys are rude jerks.

But that's not it, at all.

They're not waiting for you because they believe, for some reason or other, that you are not worth the wait.

That doesn't make them jerks.

It makes you not worth the wait--to them.

So move on.[/quote]

Eh, I'm an extremely attractive woman, I would say a solid 9.

I've held off on sex and had guys lose interest.

Men are men, not all that bright and when they get "denied" (funny choice of words since it implies they were owed it) sex, something goes off in their brain, like some weird "fuck you" switch. I've had guys act in all sorts of crazy ways.

Never forget- Halle Berry, Eva Longoria, Christie freaking Brinkley were all cheated on.  It doesnt necessarily mean he doesnt think she's worth it... he could very well just be a jerk.

Anyway, it doesnt matter, cause it's onwards and upwards for OP. [/quote]

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