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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry, OP.  The additional condoms and lube tell you all you need to know in terms of knowing he's had sex with at least one other person if not people.

Honestly, and maybe it's just because this happens to me, the lube plus car condoms suggests same-sex anonymous hookup to me.  There are lots of oubliy straight guys in the DC area (probably everywhere) who will meet another guy for quickie sex, no questions asked.  If your DH's time is mostly accounted for and you can't imagine him being able to have a full time affair, that would be my guess.

For me, it was somewhat a comfort to know that the sex was anonymous and not at all emotional or personal, but I still couldn't live with the breach in trust and eventually split up.

SurvivingInfidelity.com can be a huge help to you now.  I'm so sorry, OP.[/quote]

DH here:  sadly, this sounds like the most plausible scenario to me, too.  I'd gather more evidence before confronting, however, since it is not entirely definitive and if he stonewalls and goes dark because he knows you know, you will drive yourself crazy wondering.  [/quote]

There are lots of oubliy straight guys in the DC area (probably everywhere) who will meet another guy for quickie sex, no questions asked.  [/quote]

NO THAT IS NOT CORRECT.   I'm straight and no mans gonna suck my dick.  You bi people need to get out of you head that everyone can be bi
If he's humping other men , he is gay 
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See, when I see a man react this strongly against bisexuality/homosexuality? I assume he's closeted and tormented by his urges for sex with other men.

Regular straight guys don't give a shit if people out there are bi or straight or gay. If you're so worked up about it, it's a case of "the gentleman doth protest too much."[/quote]

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