Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Would this bother you re: infertility and IL behavior"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I doubt there was much sharing by the SIL about what exactly was happening with the treatments and such. I know we didn't tell anyone when we were going through our IUIs after 3 years of secondary infertility. I mean, do people actually broadcast to the entire family and all their friends exactly when they are going to be having a procedure done? And if they were being so standoffish, I doubt there was a lot of chance for OP to be super supportive or whatever the hell people expected HER to do. I get that IF sucks and is a mindfuck. But it really does not give anyone a get out of jail free card for YEARS of being a horrible person. It just doesn't. Sometimes, you need to suck it up and be a grown up, too, no matter how much it might hurt on the inside. Behave like a normal human being for a couple hours, even if you have to force it and go home and cry for weeks afterward. But, demanding people walk on eggshells for you for years just doesn't fly.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
