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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know what you mean by "playing the long game", or being a "tester" (sounds odd in the context of a marital relationship). But it's weird that she won't tell you who she is with. Unless there is a history of her feeling controlled by you, there is nothing wrong with you asking and it makes no sense that she doesn't make all this drama go away by just answering you plainly. Which makes me think there has to be more to this story than you're disclosing, in terms of the dynamics of your relationship, etc.

But yes, if my DH was out until midnight and refused to tell me who he was with, I would be very uneasy. [/quote]

"Tester" in that when we fight, sometimes she pokes at things she's knows will bothers me, to make me upset. I'm pretty mild mannered by nature, so sometimes she feels nothing bothers me, or my lack of response is me "not caring." Its her way to get a rise out of me.

We have mostly counseled through this, but of course it doesn't always go away. There may be some truth to the thought that she is upset about something of which I am not aware and hasn't communicated it yet. Or expects me to already know. 
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