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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PPs need to lay off the OP. This isn't really about trust; he's concerned for his wife. The woman is gone for 6 hours every week and coming home with bruises on her face and hands. She's offered "workout" and "going out with friends" as the only explanation. So yes, he is absolutely in the right to follow her and see where she's going. She could be doing something dangerous to herself.

OP has confirmed with the gym that she is there for at least 1 hour, but that doesn't explain the other 5 hours or the bruising.

When your spouse has physical injuries and can't explain it, it's time to do some investigating. [/quote]

I agree with this in theory but I still don't get why he can't just ask her. That speaks to a deeper problems in the relationship. If my husband were coming home at midnight during the week, that would be weird, even more so if he were all bruised. I agree to something is up and OP has the right to be concerned. That said, the relationships off.[/quote]

I DID talk to her. She gave me a BS answer, which I called out. When pressed she said kind of played the don't worry about me/monitor me card. In a sense, my wife may feel like my current actions are a form of controlling her. Maybe she's right in this instance.

DW sometimes turns inward when something is bothering her. Usually this translates to her being more moody/snarky.  Not secretive and weird.  We go to marriage counseling as a healthy practice. Have been doing so for 10 years. Never any issues regarding me being controlling. There are many other areas where I can be a douche though. Maybe thats whats sparking her "rebellion." I plan to bring it up at our next appointment.

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