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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't consider that type of stuff helpful, either! Controlling and nosy.[/quote] Does it have to be either/ or? Why does it have to be controlling or nosy? Can't it just be misguided? I trust those on this board that jump to the "controlling, no boundaries, MIL MUST have NPD" knee jerk response aren't as drama free as they would like to assume about themselves too. It helps to assume, until given plenty of evidence otherwise, that your DH's family has best intentions. Now if those intentions make you uncomfy, a little chat could help but it doesn't need to be some giant dramatic production. Just let them know you sort of have grown up a different way and its not something you really care for but be thankful that they thought of you in that way to help.[/quote] Who said anything about NPD? Why are you projecting?[/quote]
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