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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find plenty of fault in OP's dilemma, but is it really too much to expect a married man or woman to dress well, stay in shape, and be able to contribute to a conversation in general social setting? [/quote] If someone is poorly dressed, socially awkward, and not athletic before you marry them, then yes, it is too much to expect. [/quote] It sounds like this guy is maybe slightly overweight, dresses normally (for a guy) and is slightly awkward. Basically, he sounds normal. OP is unhappy because she thinks that she can do better. As Tom Petty sang, "If you think you can do better, than go! But remember... " Men who are in perfect shape, dress well, have great careers and are good conversationalists, and are not gay or insane Type A driven maniacs, are extremely rare unicorns. Just like most men eventually have to accept that their wives are not going to look like Victoria's Secret models, you need to accept that your husband is not going to be Prince Charming. [/quote]
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