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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's cruel and very selfish to remain married to a man that you don't value and respect - love and adore.  How horrible of a person do you have to be to have them living in ignorance of the fact that you dislike so much of who they are?  Everyone deserves a true love that adores them despite any flaws - perceived or otherwise - that they may have.

I would absolutely be devastated if my spouse felt this way about me.  I would want a divorce immediately - particularly in light of the fact that there are no kids.  You can fix clothes and a haircut.  You cannot fix what presents itself to be a true resentment of who your spouse is - cornball or not.

I love my husband.  He's overweight - but I've become partial to big boys because of him - even in my fantasies.  And not just - a mere few pounds - he could stand to lose 50.  But I love every damn inch of him and tell him so.

But I'm the cornball - I look presentable - even dress stylishly.  But I'm loud, tend to lean toward the inappropriate in my jokes - laugh with my mouth open, I'm forever spilling something on myself.  I play my music like a teenager in the car - and I'm over 35.  I can never figure out which fork to use, my elbows forever creep on the table, I drop my napkin on the floor repeatedly and my eyes glaze over when people start talking about wine this and that - give me some whiskey neat and I'm good.  But he loves every inch of me - and tells me so.

It's not what you've said - the cringe at the moments - but the overall way in which you clearly show that you are not in love but in convenience.  I feel sorry for him.  I feel sorry that he doesn't know that you obviously detest him so much.  How selfish that you will not give him the opportunity to find someone that will love him down to his toes - awkward stained shoes and all.[/quote]

You sound like a great lady, loud laugh and all.  I wish I knew you so we could hang out![/quote]

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