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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was being portrayed as some sort of crazy stalker who pounced on a married man, yep, I would set the record straight.  Everyone is going to be sympathetic to the wife who was cheated on but that does not mean that *I* deserve scorn or ill will towards *ME*.  Plus, she really should know that her husband is duping unsuspecting women like that.[/quote]

You care what a complete stranger thinks about you. You know the wife is a complete stranger, you don't know her at all.

Would you walk up to a complete stranger on the street and tell them your story?

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If I got the sense that she was bad mouthing me  and making my name mud in her circle of lady friends.  You bet I would try to talk to her because obviously she is not some random stranger, she is the wronged wife who is pissed off specifically at *ME*.  And I would not deserve that kind of animosity directed at me.  She would deserve to know exactly what her husband did - I'm not talking about bedroom specifics, I am talking about the way he manipulated/duped an innocent woman into being the other woman.  I would also want her to know that I was very, very sorry and would never have willingly participated in a deception like that.  Maybe it would make her feel better that she was not the only one who was hurt by this man.  I don't know.[/quote]

You sound smart. I already posted that I was duped into a relationship with a married man who swore he was "in the process of getting a divorce." I took the high road -- that is, I said nothing. Both he and his DW talked about me relentlessly, saying I had pursued him (I had not) etc. I suspect it was the only thing that held their marriage together. If I had to do it over, I would speak up ASAP and tell my side of the story. People believe whatever they hear. Speak up.[/quote]

Yep.  The only thing the wife could stay with her a-hole of a husband was to spin it so that you came off looking like some sort of desperate stalker.  Otherwise, the wife would have to let on that she had chosen to stay with an a-hole husband.[/quote]

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